Stepping into a BDSM dungeon for the first time felt like walking into a different world. I was nervous, anxious, and excited all at once and I wasn’t sure how I’d react to being restrained. What would it feel like to surrender control? Would I enjoy the experience or want to run away? I was asked to share my thoughts of my visit to STB and my first time being tied to a chair (amongst other things), and if that moment opened a door to a new side of myself?